The signs of infidelity are signs, not proof.
indications of infidelity in your spouse is extremely stressful, draining and
heart breaking, but they are not conclusive. This
is when you
need to know the truth.
Knowing IS the beginning of healing.
There have been times where our clients have
found signs of
possible infidelity and our investigation indicated that no infidelity was
taking place. A ‘mid life crises’ often produces signs like changes in
appearance and suddenly embarking on an exercise program, without infidelity
taking place. Other problems within a relationship can cause a spouse to pull
away and become more distant, without infidelity being involved.
Shown below are some
indications of possible infidelity
1. They start wearing
style of clothes; a change of appearance.
2. Starting arguments.
who are cheating in a relationship will argue or complain more about their
spouse in an effort to justify their behavior. Some people react in the
opposite way and become very passive.
3. They are working
different hours; Changes in time spent at work, or away from the family.
4. Their clothing
perfume or cologne.
5. They are taking
6. They have more
interest in your
schedule, when and where you will be.
7. They take more
8. They become secretive or defensive about
phone calls and
9. They frequently step outside or into another
accept phone calls.
10. They Hide credit
and cash withdrawals.
11. They pull away
from church and
12. There is a noticeable
in your sex life.
13. Your intuition
something is going on. Don't ignore your gut feelings.